The other night I had a midnight dream.  I met an awesome girl and we got married.  We lived in east Africa for several years then traveled around the globe.  Bought an old farmhouse and had 3 wonderful, talented, and smart children.  I even wrote a children’s chapter book called Hootie and Happy Cat.  Such a vivid dream.  Years passed.  I remember overseas adventures, perfect Michigan summers, camping in the UP, and fishing.  Lots and lots of fishing!  Near the end of this particular dream, I remember our lives being really busy, kids in plays, kids playing violin in Europe, kids running cross country, my wife flower farming.  Even though we were busy, we decided to dedicate several months of our 25^th year of marriage towards a dance fundraiser for the area YMCA!!  Oh! Wait!  This isn’t a dream????